Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you r...
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Episode 720: How Do I Recover From a Sudden Breakup?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose life was upended with zero discussion
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Epsidoe 719: Keeping Community In Capitalism
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling resentful of the family she nannied for
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Episode 718: Cosmically Good Sex or Past Life Connection?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is between a rock and a hard place, by which we mean two men
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Episode 717: I Bad About Self-Soothing With Casual Sex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose trying to gain self-confidence after a terrible relationship
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Episode 716: Loving Alcoholic Parents Without Losing Myself
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to maintain a normal relationship with her alcoholic parents
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Episode 715: Staying, Leaving, and the Truth in Between
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stying with her husband out of guilt
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Episode 714: Waiting for Sex Unapologetically
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know when to tell the people she's dating that she wants to wait until marriage
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Episode 713: Empathy Without Erasure
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose joy seems to cause her partner pain
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Episode 712: Reclaiming Life, Redefining Stepparent
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband wants her to be a more involved stepparent
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Episode 711: Age Gaps, Power, and Perception
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who maybe wants to date someon 8 years younger
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Episode 710: Stuck Between His Messy Divorce and My Mom
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mom wants her to date someone whose life is a little less messy
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Episode 709: Is Toxic Sex Inherently Hotter and Easier?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose sex with her toxic ex was more passionate than sex with her wonderful partner
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Episode 708: Staying Present in a Temporary Love
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having a hard time just enjoying her fling
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Episode 707: What Happens When That Anger is Directed at You?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend can sometimes get angry
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Episode 706: Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like time isn't actually healing all wounds
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Episode 705: Why Your Friend Won't RSVP to Your Wedding
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who uninvited her friend to her wedding after he said no because weddings aren't important?
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Episode 704: Can Healing Drown Out Instinct?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose healing of her anxious attachment style seems to be backfiring
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Episode 703: Grief Rearranges a Life Without Asking Permission
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel sexy, open, confident, and present, but...her dad is dying
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Episode 702: Unsettled by “Settled”
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partners said he settled for her
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Episode 701: Recycled Pet Names
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose brain has started looking for threats in her relationship where there might not be any
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Episode 700: I Miss Him, But Not Our Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grieving for her ex but not for the relationship
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Episode 699: Grieving a Friendship That Hasn’t Officially Ended
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend told him she needed space but won't tell him why
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Episode 698: Dating While Trans in Your 60s
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to find connection with people his own age
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Episode 697: Feeling Stuck After Grad School Rejections Letters
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling like a failur after facing rejection after rejection
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Episode 696: Either Way, She Left You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's investigating his breakup and not liking what he's finding
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Episode 695: Don't Get Burned By Your Sexy Friends' Chaotic Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is in too deep with a couple friend
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Episode 694: Love Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who did everything right but still lost his relationship
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Episode 693: You Were Allowed To Be Drunk
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering how much to disclose about a painful moment from their past
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Episode 692: It's Not Pathetic To Tell Someone You Like Them
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck in limbo with an ex who left her on read
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Episode 691: Metabolizing Anger At Your Ex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose post-breakup fury just keeps rising
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Episode 690: Resentment Toward Someone Who Isn't "Working As Hard"
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks about her resentment for her sister-in-law every single day
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Episode 689: My Friend’s Partner Crossed a Line
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend has crossed the line multiple times while high
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Episode 688: Love in Low Battery Mode
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't showing her love in the way she can feel it
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Episode 687: Where Love Ends and Self-Respect Begins
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wishes her relationship had ended with more dignity and respect
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Episode 686: Learning to Sit With Other People’s Choices
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriends' parents don't have the capacity to improve she wants them to
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Episode 685: It's Time to Get Some New Friends
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel her feelings and not take on other people's perspectives
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Episode 684: When Grief Hardens Into Anger
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to be consumed by bitterness about his ex
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Episode 683: Compromise as a Living Conversation
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who finds her mother-in-law difficult
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Episode 682: Dreaming About My Crush During Naptime
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's in the wrong relationship
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Episode 681: Retroactive Rage
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex won't respect the block
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